Relational Healing Method for Healers, Coaches and Facilitators
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Become skilled in healing trauma through relationship
Transform relationships with clients, partners, family and friends
Learn a super simple approach that creates profound healing results
Step into deeper master inside the relationship and intimacy healing space
Great for healing practitioners and non healers alike
You bring your truth - the joy, the ache, the raw energy pulsing through your system -and the people around you can’t meet it. Your clients nod but can’t sense the depth you are offering. Your friends shut down and leave. Your family doesn’t even register it. Your partner gets reactive and you end up supporting them instead of feeling supported. You’re left holding it all, wondering if real connection is even possible anymore.
"I’m the one who always feels everything."
I sit in sessions where I can sense the client’s whole system - the tightness in their chest, the story locked in their belly, the grief hiding behind their smile. I feel it so clearly. And yet, they look at me blankly and say, “I don’t feel anything.” It’s like standing in the middle of a storm while the other person swears it’s sunny. I leave drained, wondering if I’m crazy, or worse - if I’ll ever get to facilitate work that actually meets the depth I know is possible.
"When I bring my truth, people shut down.”
Last week I told a close friend that I was hurting. I didn’t need them to fix it, I just wanted to be felt. But as soon as the words left my mouth, I watched them shut down, scramble for solutions, or change the subject. My truth scared them. Instead of feeling less alone, I felt abandoned - punished for being honest. It makes me wonder: is there anyone who can really hold me, or am I destined to always hold myself?
"Surface-level relationships bore me to death."
Everywhere I look, people are numbing out. My family watches TV constantly instead of feeling. My peers prefer a “good vibes only” chat instead of depth. Even my clients want quick fixes instead of transformation. Sometimes it feels like our whole culture has gone emotionally malnourished. I crave the kind of intimacy where pain leads to more connection, not less - but instead, I’m surrounded by people who would rather bypass or shut down. It’s lonely in a way that words barely touch.
"I’m starting to lose hope."
After years of this, I notice myself pulling back. Each time I bring my heart forward and it isn’t met, a little part of me wants to stop trying. It feels safer to stay quiet, to hold my own energy, to lower my expectations. But that’s not who I am. I want to believe that healthy, attuned, nourishing relationships are possible. Still… the more I look around, the more it feels like we’re moving further away from it. And it breaks my heart.
“My work isn’t landing the way it should.”
I became a healer because I know what’s possible. I’ve tasted the power of real attunement, of being felt so deeply that healing unfolds effortlessly. But when I work with clients who can’t sense their own energy - who stay stuck on the surface - I feel underutilized, like a Ferrari stuck in first gear. My sessions start to feel flat, uninspiring, even boring. And then the thought creeps in: what if the world just isn’t ready for the kind of work I’m here to do?
When I first set out to find a solution, I thought the answer had to be better communication.
I devoured books on active listening. I practiced scripts. I studied conflict resolution tools.
But the truth?
Even with all the communication tricks in the world, people still shut down.
They still avoided depth.
They still left me holding the weight of the room, exhausted and unseen.
It was maddening.
Here I was, trained in healing, sensing energy, feeling everything in people’s systems - yet the methods everyone swore by left me lonelier than ever.
And that’s when the conspiracy revealed itself:
We’ve been taught that relationship is about words. About fixing. About solving problems at the level of the mind.
But that’s a lie.
Because the real power doesn’t live in what we say - it lives in what we feel.
The truth hit me like lightning:
Pain isn’t supposed to divide us. It’s supposed to connect us.
When we stop trying to “manage” people’s reactions and instead learn how to feel with them - attuning, regulating, and moving together through the energy of the moment -everything changes.
That’s when I created the method now called Feeling You Feeling Me.
It’s not theory. It’s not another script.
It’s an embodied practice that turns relational pain into the very thing that creates intimacy, connection, and transformation.
The same places where I once felt abandoned, shut down, or drained…
…are now the places where I feel most alive, most intimate, and most connected.
Masha was deeply struggling in her relationship. She wasn't being felt, her partner kept calling mental health watch on her instead of feeling her. It led to her emotions spiraling even deeper out of control. I began sharing feeling you feeling me with her and it transformed her life, a year later she was married to her now sacred union partner and they to came up against some big emotional energy but the learned Feeling You Feeling Me together and finally had a method to apply to intense relational moments and after a phase of thinking their new marriage wasn't going to make it, are now thriving because of this work and how its shifted how they relate to one another - actually Masha is the one who called me and told me I needed to make this course for you because it helped her that much.
Masha Brown
Where pain becomes the doorway to intimacy.
The Importance of Being Trauma-Informed
The Foundations of Understanding Trauma in the Body
What is a Process (and how to recognize when one is unfolding)
: You’ll finally understand why so many interactions spiral into disconnection, and you’ll gain the skills to stay steady, grounded, and effective no matter what arises.
Recognize how unprocessed trauma secretly shapes every interaction — and why ignoring it kills trust and depth.
Spot when you or your client are in “process” (instead of spinning out), so you don’t collapse or try to fix.
Understand the body-based roots of overwhelm and guide people back into safety and connection.
Show up as the healer who can hold it all without shutting down, over-identifying, or leaving drained.
Where pain becomes the doorway to intimacy.
The Importance of Being Trauma-Informed
The Foundations of Understanding Trauma in the Body
What is a Process (and how to recognize when one is unfolding)
: You’ll finally understand why so many interactions spiral into disconnection, and you’ll gain the skills to stay steady, grounded, and effective no matter what arises.
Recognize how unprocessed trauma secretly shapes every interaction — and why ignoring it kills trust and depth.
Spot when you or your client are in “process” (instead of spinning out), so you don’t collapse or try to fix.
Understand the body-based roots of overwhelm and guide people back into safety and connection.
Show up as the healer who can hold it all without shutting down, over-identifying, or leaving drained.
Sense dysregulation before it erupts, and intervene with precision instead of fumbling or freezing.
Decode fight, flight, freeze, and fawn patterns in real time — and respond without re-triggering.
Read the “invisible field” of energy shaping every relational dynamic, even when nothing is being said.
Hold an attuned presence that clients and loved ones feel instantly — so the whole space relaxes into trust.
Identifying Dysregulation + What to Do About It
Defense Patterns (fight, flight, freeze)
How to Attune to the Relational Field
Outcome: You’ll learn how to sense subtle shifts in energy and behavior, intervene with precision, and transform tension into deeper trust — instead of conflict or shutdown.
Developing the Practice of Feeling You Feeling Me
Approaching Conflict with Attunement and Skill
Living Intimacy as a Path of Healing
Outcome: You’ll embody the art of transforming pain into intimacy, practicing the skills that make every relational moment — even conflict — a doorway to connection and healing.
Transform pain into connection, using the Feeling You Feeling Me method to move through challenge together.
Approach conflict without fear, knowing how to use it as a doorway to intimacy and repair.
Practice moment-to-moment attunement that leaves people saying: “You just get me… I’ve never felt this before.”
Finally feel held yourself — because you’ll be co-regulating with others, instead of carrying it all alone.
I finally feel held — even when I’m the “strong one.”
As a healer, I was always the container. The one who could feel it all. But I rarely felt met in return. In this training, I practiced letting others attune to me. I shared my raw pain, my joy, even my shame — and for the first time in years, I felt felt. I realized that I don’t have to carry it all alone, and that being deeply received is what allows me to show up even stronger for my clients.
Conflict actually brings me closer to people.
For years, conflict felt like proof that intimacy was failing. Now, I see it as the doorway. I’ve learned how to lean into the heat without getting burned — how to meet someone’s defense patterns with compassion and precision so the fight dissolves into understanding. My relationships feel more alive, more honest, and more resilient than ever before.
I can regulate with the world around me — not just alone.
I used to be great at self-regulation in solitude. Breathwork, meditation, energy practices — I could calm myself. But put me in a room with chaos, and I’d get swept away. Now, I can co-regulate. I anchor the field. Even in tense moments, I feel steady in my own body and can bring others back with me. It feels like a superpower — being able to hold a whole space in safety and intimacy.
Never again do you want to pour your heart out, only to watch the other person shut down, change the subject, get angry, or disappear.
Never again do you want to leave a client session drained because you felt everything — while they felt nothing.
Never again do you want to shrink your truth just to keep the peace, or settle for surface-level connection when you’re craving depth.
Your sessions feel one-sided.
You feel everything happening in your clients’ systems - but they feel nothing. They leave with surface-level insights instead of embodied breakthroughs, and you’re left drained and unfulfilled.
Conflict shuts people down instead of bringing them closer.
When you bring truth or pain into relationship, people around you react, withdraw, or collapse. Instead of being met in intimacy, you end up managing other people’s discomfort while your own needs go untouched.
You’re carrying the weight of every space.
Whether it’s your family, your partnerships, or your clients - you’re always the anchor. The “strong one.” But no one is anchoring you. You secretly wonder how long you can keep holding it all without breaking.
You’re bored in your own relationships and sessions.
You crave depth - the kind of intimacy that’s raw, electric, and alive. But instead you’re swimming in shallow waters, repeating the same surface-level dynamics over and over.
You’re losing hope.
The more you witness relational breakdowns around you — clients shut off, partners disconnecting, a culture that can’t feel - the more you wonder: Is true connection even possible anymore?
Why This Is the Solution
Feeling You Feeling Me solves these exact problems because it doesn’t bypass pain - it transforms it through relationship.
Instead of you doing all the heavy lifting, your clients learn to feel with you — which makes sessions alive, collaborative, and unforgettable.
Instead of conflict ending in shutdown, you’ll know how to guide it into intimacy, repair, and deeper trust.
Instead of being the one who always holds, you’ll finally experience co-regulation — being met, felt, and anchored by others.
Instead of stale, flat dynamics, you’ll bring fire back into your connections — making every relational moment a doorway to transformation.
Instead of losing hope, you’ll embody proof that deep, skillful relationship is not only possible — it’s the medicine the world is starving for.
Why This Is Necessary Right Now
Because every month you wait, these problems compound.
Clients stay stuck on the surface, while you burn out holding them.
Relationships fracture under the weight of unskilled connection.
Your sensitivity — your greatest gift — starts to feel like a curse.
The culture is numbing out. People are replacing intimacy with distraction. Healers who can create real relational transformation will become the ones sought after, respected, and remembered.
And that’s what this training makes you:
the healer who doesn’t just “do sessions” — but transforms lives through the art of intimacy and repairs relationships through connection.
Because once you experience what it’s like to truly be felt — and to guide others into that same depth — every relationship, every session, and every moment of your life changes forever.
This bonus helps you release mental noise, energetic blocks, and resistance - so you can fully receive the results your strategy is designed to deliver. Align your energy, open your channel, and step into effortless receiving.
These practices help you sharpen your inner awareness and build unshakable trust in your intuitive abilities. Learn how to sense, interpret, and confidently validate your gifts - so you stop second-guessing and start owning your power.
This bonus guides you in deepening your intuitive connection and expanding your capacity to receive clear, consistent guidance. Strengthen your channel so your insights come through with clarity, confidence, and precision.
Our Frequently asked questions
Knowing about trauma and attunement isn’t the same as being able to embody it in real time when someone in front of you is shutting down, spiraling, or pushing back against your truth. Theory doesn’t regulate the room — you do. This training is not more concepts to store in your head. It’s about wiring the skills into your body so you can hold any space — client session, partnership, or group — with precision, confidence, and intimacy. If you’ve ever fumbled, frozen, or walked away drained, then you don’t just need this… your work depends on it.
That’s the very problem this training solves. Right now, your people can’t feel — not because they’re unwilling, but because no one has shown them how to access safety in their own bodies. You’re carrying the weight because you sense everything they can’t. Feeling You Feeling Me teaches you how to bring others into the relational field, so they begin to sense, connect, and co-regulate with you. Instead of working harder and giving more, you’ll actually be doing less — because you’ll finally know how to invite others into the depth you’ve been craving.
Most trainings hand you more tools — scripts, theories, techniques — but leave you alone when the heat rises. This isn’t about adding more noise to your toolkit. It’s about rewiring how you show up in the moment when things get messy: the tears, the shutdowns, the arguments, the silences. You’ll see it modeled in real session demos, then practice it in a live field where your nervous system learns by experience. That’s why this work sticks. Because it’s not about memorizing — it’s about becoming the person who can hold intimacy in any storm.
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